Marlow’s First Rodeo themed birthday cake - DIY st Marlow’s First Rodeo themed birthday cake - DIY style! 

Two cakes from @sainsburys stacked, and enough patience to turn a block of fondant icing into cowboy hats and boots.

First birthday cake, my first rodeo party,  cowboy cake, cowboy birthday party, diy cake, budget party.
Today we strapped into our dungarees for Marlow’s Today we strapped into our dungarees for Marlow’s first rodeo! His precious little face was on a lot of the decor so I haven’t shared it, but this was such a fun theme to plan! 

I’ve spent evenings colouring cow print paper for paper chains and making cowboy hats from icing, gluing my fingers together making his highchair banner and designing a photo board for my sign making husband to print. My mum is also a whizz on a cricut turning Marlow into a cowboy for our cake toppers. And I got to take a trip to @hobbycrafthq! 

My first rodeo party, first birthday, diy kids party, diy party decor, boys party, crafting, homemade decorations, cake decorating, birthday cake, cowboy party, cowboy theme.
The one where my wedding dress is inspired by Rach The one where my wedding dress is inspired by Rachel Green 🤍 I was born the year it aired, so it was only fitting. Reimagined for today. Full details on my blog. 

📸 Photography by @alisaroberts_ 

#FriendsFan

Wedding dress, bridal shop, lace, blush, barn venue, country wedding,
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It’s been my dream for the last 10 years of living in my own home to have a cleaner. Until I became a mum of two. Then it became an essential I’ll never turn my back on. She’s part of the family at this point. She holds my sanity together. 

⭐️ Latest blog post “The Transition from 1 to 2 Children: What to Expect (and How To Cope)” live now - link in bio.

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⬆️ Read full blog post - link in bio
Home from a week at @havenofficial Devon Cliffs. O Home from a week at @havenofficial Devon Cliffs. Our little climber loved this mini arial adventure, the white sandy beach, soft play and swimming pool. The evening entertainment didn’t really work for us, with Winnie dropping her nap recently and Marlow being only 5 months - but the dads did go to bingo which apparently was the highlight on their trip 😂

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#havendevoncliffs #caravanholiday #devon #ukstaycation
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When Marlow is a little older and the two littles don’t have such different needs, we definitely need a holiday - or as my husband calls it, parenting in a different country for a week! 

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Blog, On A Budget · 1st March 2020

How To Smash Your No Spend Month Challenge

Sistabliss Tribe is coming together for a challenge, a No Spend Month. Challenging ourselves to curb spending in an attempt to love everything we have instead of wanting to have everything we love. Whether you are saving money for something in particular, need to reduce your outgoings, or want to be more content with your life and what you have, then join us and take on the No Spend Monday challenge this March. With free budget planner templates, tips and a Facebook group for support, you will be smashing your goals this month.

What is a No Spend Month?

A ‘No Spend Month’ doesn’t mean spending no money for an entire month. Unless you still live at home with no regular outgoings, you will have to spend money. This challenge simply means no non-essential spending. Those coffees, lunches out, and ‘just-because’ treats all stop, for one month.

How can a No Spend Month Benefit more than just your finances?

A No Spend Month can do more than just bulk up your bank balance. I took on the challenge for another very important reason. Sometimes I slip into a terrible habit of wanting… well everything I don’t have. A very pathetic pity party of “why can’t I just be rich and have everything I want” vibes. Not ok. There are two cures for this feeling: 1. A lottery win. 2. Learning to recognise and appreciate everything I have. Since I can’t control the first, I opted for solution number two.

For instance, you scroll through social media, watching influencer instagram stories and pine over their excessive quantities of possessions. The clothes, products and bags, not to mention the trips, exclusive events and spa days. They can often make us feel inferior, as if despite working our butts off we still haven’t ‘made it’ because we can’t afford everything we want. They make us want to buy buy buy! That’s how they get their commission right? As this form of marketing explodes, these feelings of greed and lack of appreciation are inevitable for us, the unsuspecting audience.

Everything you see in your home used to be money, and all that money used to be time.

By challenging yourself to avoid those triggers and resist the urge to spend money, you will have to look more at what you already have and be creative to use those items to meet your needs. We don’t need things to feel content. That new bag can only bring temporary feelings of joy but never contentment. Contentment comes from appreciative of everything you have, from recognising how far you have come and what you have achieved, and never wanting more than you need.

Top Tips to help you succeed

Now i’m not going to lie to you, a No Spend Month isn’t going to be easy. The fact that the challenge is asking you not to do something, doesn’t make it any easier than a challenge demanding positive action, like a 30 day squat challenge. We’ve all tried and failed that one right? So here are some tips to help you prepare, to alter your mindset, and keep you on the path to success!

Plan your month

It’s all in the planning! Using a diary, calendar or just good old pen and paper, plan out your whole month. Recording all your plans and any special occasions. Not forgetting birthdays or other people you need to buy gifts for, any invitations you might have received, any appointments you might have booked in advance. You will need to decide what activities are going to incur cost, and which of those you can justify as essential. Once you have decided which of these one-off (not scheduled monthly outgoings) costs are essential, set a budget for each of them.

Monthly Budget Planner

This will be your holy grail! A budget planner will keep you on track and accountable for your spending. Sometimes when I go to buy something, I think about having to record it in my budget planner, and I instantly pop it back on the shelf.

After months of designing and tweaking my own budget planner, I have produced a download to print, to add to your existing planner, or to use on a tablet.

Download Budget Planner Template

Record your expected income and regular outgoings so you can set budgets for groceries, travel and planned spending. Keep a record of all your outgoings to track your success (yes, success! You are going to smash this challenge!)

Know your weaknesses

Write a list of your unnecessary spending habits. That might be, for example, coffees, lunches, clothes, snacks, alcohol, or taxis. Once you identify where your funds are disappearing to, you can make preparations to help you avoid wasting money.

One of my main weaknesses is buying lunch out. Whether that’s at work or at the weekend whilst i’m out running errands. So to combat that risk, i’ll be using the next tip…

Meal planning and preparation

Plan all your meals in advance, ensuring you have plenty of food in the house for breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks. I like to plan 1-2 weeks at a time, depending on our schedules. Meal planning not only reduces your chances of eating out or regularly popping to the shops, it also helps you to keep track of your food spending and stick to a weekly food budget.

If you can, prepare lunches in advance, so there is no risk of you leaving the house without your lunch. I am terrible for buying food at work after forgetting to buy enough food or prep a lunch in advance. To combat this I set reminders on my phone the evening before reminding me to prepare tomorrows lunch.

Online food shopping

How many items “accidentally” slip into your shopping trolley as you wonder the aisles? My guilty pleasures that often just appear on the checkout belt as if by magic are bourbon biscuits and Ben & Jerry’s ice cream. For about two months I have ordered all our food shopping online. Not only do I stick to our meal plan shopping list, but I can also see what I am spending before I spend it.

Avoid email marketing

Urrrggahhhhhh! Email marketing is a cure and a curse. Often full of money saving offers, signing up to these emails can help you save money on planned purchases, but more often than not, they entice you to part with more money than intended! “Sale now on”, “50% off everything”, “Last minute holiday deals” pop up on my phone lock screen all day and they are hard to ignore.

If you might be vulnerable to this type of marketing, unsubscribe from these lists or redirect emails from those senders to a separate folder which you don’t get notifications for… a less drastic option if you can resist the urge to peak!

Join the No Spend Month Challenge!

You are not alone, join the Sistabliss Tribe No Spend Month Challenge this March to smash your goals with the support of other wonderful women. Here are some ways you can get involved and find all the tips and support you need to get started:

  1. Follow Sistabliss Tribe on social media to keep up to date on our challenge progress, successes, tips and tools. You can find Sistabliss Tribe on Facebook, Instagram, Pinterest and Twitter.
  2. Join our Facebook Group – Sistabliss Tribe Women’s Wellbeing Chat where the tribe chat all things women’s wellbeing in a safe and supportive space. Here you can share your No Spend Month Challenge successes and seek tips from fellow sistas.
  3. Download your free budget planner template.
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Now you are armed with the tools and tips to smash your No Spend Month Challenge, I wish you the best of luck and look forward to celebrating your successes with you.

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Marlow’s First Rodeo themed birthday cake - DIY st Marlow’s First Rodeo themed birthday cake - DIY style! 

Two cakes from @sainsburys stacked, and enough patience to turn a block of fondant icing into cowboy hats and boots.

First birthday cake, my first rodeo party,  cowboy cake, cowboy birthday party, diy cake, budget party.
Today we strapped into our dungarees for Marlow’s Today we strapped into our dungarees for Marlow’s first rodeo! His precious little face was on a lot of the decor so I haven’t shared it, but this was such a fun theme to plan! 

I’ve spent evenings colouring cow print paper for paper chains and making cowboy hats from icing, gluing my fingers together making his highchair banner and designing a photo board for my sign making husband to print. My mum is also a whizz on a cricut turning Marlow into a cowboy for our cake toppers. And I got to take a trip to @hobbycrafthq! 

My first rodeo party, first birthday, diy kids party, diy party decor, boys party, crafting, homemade decorations, cake decorating, birthday cake, cowboy party, cowboy theme.
The one where my wedding dress is inspired by Rach The one where my wedding dress is inspired by Rachel Green 🤍 I was born the year it aired, so it was only fitting. Reimagined for today. Full details on my blog. 

📸 Photography by @alisaroberts_ 

#FriendsFan

Wedding dress, bridal shop, lace, blush, barn venue, country wedding,
There’s something sacred about having a space that There’s something sacred about having a space that’s yours. 

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Sistabliss Tribe is that space for me. A reminder that I am allowed to create without limits.

Blogging is still magic. And I’m proud to be part of it. ✨

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or flopping…😅 but I’m going to show up anyway. 

If you like honest chats about motherhood, believe in women supporting women, and care about wellness and personal growth, join the tribe with a follow and maybe even browse the blog with your next cuppa ☕️ 

Your support means more than you know.

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Still worth it. It’s been my dream for the last Still worth it. 

It’s been my dream for the last 10 years of living in my own home to have a cleaner. Until I became a mum of two. Then it became an essential I’ll never turn my back on. She’s part of the family at this point. She holds my sanity together. 

⭐️ Latest blog post “The Transition from 1 to 2 Children: What to Expect (and How To Cope)” live now - link in bio.

Motherhood, baby-led weaning.
⭐️ Latest Blog Post - The Transition from 1 to 2 C ⭐️ Latest Blog Post - The Transition from 1 to 2 Children: What to Expect (and How To Cope) 

Do you ever have those moments where you think “what have we done?” followed immediately by overwhelming love and gratitude? Welcome to life with two children. If you’re reading this whilst pregnant with baby number two, or you’ve just welcomed your second baby earthside, let me be the first to say — you’ve got this. Even when it feels like you absolutely don’t.

⬆️ Read full blog post - link in bio
Home from a week at @havenofficial Devon Cliffs. O Home from a week at @havenofficial Devon Cliffs. Our little climber loved this mini arial adventure, the white sandy beach, soft play and swimming pool. The evening entertainment didn’t really work for us, with Winnie dropping her nap recently and Marlow being only 5 months - but the dads did go to bingo which apparently was the highlight on their trip 😂

Such a proud moment watching Winnie’s confidence grow as she completed laps around this course whilst saying to herself “I can do this”. 

#havendevoncliffs #caravanholiday #devon #ukstaycation
Cape Town has been voted the top long-haul destina Cape Town has been voted the top long-haul destination, and just an overnight flight away it was the best choice for us with a little one. Desperate to go back, but we now have a 3 year old sass pot and a 5 month old and as much as I’d love to be one of those families who makes travelling with multiple small kids look a breeze… I know we aren’t one of them 🤣 

When Marlow is a little older and the two littles don’t have such different needs, we definitely need a holiday - or as my husband calls it, parenting in a different country for a week! 

Read my blog post “visit stunning Cape Town with a baby” for our top family friendly spots and travel tips. Link in bio. 

#capetownmag #capetowntourism #urbanelephant #familytravel
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